Ah wells the name speaks for itself, yes relationship in JCs, well actually not just JCs but in secondary schools as well and possibly polytecnics.
Well often than not, teenagers tend to take relationships too seriously, especially considering their age, their ability to provide for themselves (a stable job, therefore let alone their counterparts), and their maturity.
One thing's for sure, I'm an immature spoilt brat. Which is why i don't happen to be in a relationship. As appeared in the Sunday Times, a guy was deperate over giving his girlfriend the wrong impression and was not hessitant to show his 'seriousness' over her. Well lets analyse this carefully. Firstly, both the guy and the girl are of the same age and are studying in the same college. Let us assume that all goes well. They will both graduate at the same time and would have spent 2 happy years together. However (gosh this is sounding like an econs essay), very soon the girl will be going off either overseas to study or may end up in a local university. The guy will then have to serve his 2 years in national service. Well lets just say all still go well and coincidentally, they meet in the same college either overseas or locally.
But things take a twist this time around. Because the guy and girl haven met for like 2 years, the girl gets tired of waiting and meets other nicer looking and probably smarter guys. And yes she dates them. Furthermore, the guy enters the varsity as the girl's junior. How awkward would that be for both parties!
So here is the guy now in JC and spending all his allowance on his girlfriend, without knowledge that such things could happen to him in the future. So guys, save ur money for a rainy day or probably for your future education and go easy on relationships, they are meant to be for FUN in JC and not something so serious that you'll die over it.
Because we have to face reality, relationships in JC do NOT last! So if you feel that that particular girl who is attractive, has great assets, slender legs, nice pretty face, and you want to make her your wife, be patient! Here's a tip. Try dating her when you are earning a 5/6 figure salary and she'll most probably be yours for the keeping! =)
Well that's all the gibberish i have for now! cheerios!
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